As the summer winds down here on the last day of August, many of us are going through a relationship transition of one kind or another. Kids going off to school for the first time. Sons and daughters heading off to college. And those of us left behind
I have been thinking about what makes for meaningful conversations with people. This thought was prompted by a quote I saw in a desk calendar my daughter gave me for this year. It’s the quote for May 16th which reads: “You cannot talk butterfly language with caterpillar people.”
For some time now I’ve been ending each episode by encouraging you to spread a little relational sunshine with the people you meet. Today’s episode gives you some examples of what this looks like. It will give you some ideas you can try out on your own.
When it comes to relationships, there’s a difference between nosey people and those who are genuinely curious about others. Avoid the former and learn how to become the latter. It’s what today’s episode is all about.
One thing that deepens relationships is doing the little things that matter. You see it in people who observe, reflect, and then act. Listen in to today’s episode for an example. John Gottman writes in The Relationship Cure that based on his research Successful marriages are characterized by
One of the pleasures of summer is taking time to relax with a good book that both entertains and informs. Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss does both. It’s a book that will raise your relational intelligence. You would do well to put it on your summer
Actionable relationship
insights delivered weekly
to your inbox
Join the journey to transform your relationships into the best they can be.
John’s relationship story starts with his birth to a single mother and placement in foster care for the first 16 months of his life. From this comes four different careers, 51 years of marriage to the same wife, and much he has learned about relationships. John draws from all this, along with inspiring stories from his guests, to share how you can find more fulfillment in the relationships you were made for.
Our You Were Made for This podcast, blog, and other resources found on this website are part of our Caring for Others missionary care ministry.
Your donations to our 501(c)(3) non-profit organization are tax-deductible and go to support our ministry to missionaries around the world.
© Copyright 2025 Caring For Others | Development by D3 Website Solutions | Privacy Policy
