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Reader,

I normally don’t worry about much. But recentlyI was anxious about a trip I was going to take in ways that surprised me.

I have taken trips like this before. It was nothing new to me. Yet I was stressed about it and didn’t know why.

Sometimes knowing the why we’re bothered is helpful. Other times it doesn’t matter why. This was one of those times. I just wanted to toss my anxiety into the dumpster and move on.

In today’s episode of You Were Made for This I share what I learned about dealing with anxious thoughts when they come upon us. I’m pretty sure you’ll find it useful when worry shows up at your front door.

​Click here to listen in.

Until next time, I wish you all the joy that you can wish.*

John Certalic

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​*The Merchant of Venice, Act III, scene 2

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